Cleveland Cavaliers player Kevin Love tau mus rau pej xeem nrog nws cov kev mob hlwb hauv 2018.
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Tsuas yog plaub xyoos dhau los, NBA qub tub rog Kevin Love tau ntsia ntawm nws lub khoos phis tawj lub vijtsam thiab xav tsis thoob ob peb lub sijhawm ua ntej nws nias lub pob 'xa' ntawm tus kheej sau ntawv uas nws tau sau rau. Players' Tribune Tshaj Tawm.
Cov ntawv sau - lub npe, "Txhua Tus Neeg Los Ntawm Ib Yam" - hais txog Kev Hlub yav dhau los nrog kev ntxhov siab thiab kev tawm tsam, thiab yuav ua li cas, yuav luag peb xyoo lawm, nws tau ntim nws txoj kev xav vim qhov nws xav tias yog kev qias neeg nrog rau cov teeb meem kev puas hlwb. .
"Kuv tus neeg sawv cev hais tias, 'Koj puas paub tseeb tias koj xav ua qhov no?' Kuv zoo li, 'Mloog, Kuv tsis paub tias yuav muaj dab tsi tshwm sim ntawm sab nraud ntawm qhov no, tab sis kuv xav tias nws yuav pab tau ib tus neeg. Ib tug yuav tsum hnov qhov no,'” Kev hlub hais tam sim no. "Qhov yooj yim tshaj plaws uas kuv tuaj yeem muab tso rau nws yog los ntawm kev siv cov ntaub ntawv siv kis las - peb txhua tus nyob hauv tib pab pawg, thiab peb txhua tus xav ua tus yeej ntawm keeb kwm. Los ntawm kev sib qhia (kuv zaj dab neeg), Kuv xav tias nws tsim kev cia siab tias peb txhua tus tuaj yeem kho tau, thiab peb txhua tus tuaj yeem ua tau zoo.
"Tab sis tsis muaj qhov tshwm sim tsis muaj kev sib tham no."
Kev hlub tau kais 'xa' hnub ntawd, thiab tom qab nws sau ntawv tau tshaj tawm, nws hais tias cov lus teb tam sim tom qab tau hloov pauv lub neej, thiab txog niaj hnub no, nws tseem hnov cov lus pom zoo thiab kev txhawb nqa los ntawm cov kiv cua thiab cov tswv cuab ntawm cov pej xeem.
Nyob rau hauv lub xyoo tom ntej tom qab Love's essay tau khiav, lwm lub ntsej muag lub npe nyob rau hauv cov kev ua si tau tuaj rau pem hauv ntej los tham txog pej xeem lawv cov kev nyuaj siab mob hlwb, xws li ntaus pob tesniv Naomi Osaka thiab Dallas Cowboys quarterback Dak Prescott.
"Yog tias koj hais rau kuv (ua ntej 2018) tias kuv yuav zaum ntawm no nrog kev sib tham nyob ib puag ncig kev mob hlwb thiab nws cuam tshuam rau kuv thiab cov neeg zoo dua, kuv xav tias koj yuav vwm," Kev Hlub hais. “Tab sis qhov no yog ib yam dab tsi nyob ze thiab hlub kuv txij li thaum kuv tau qhia kuv zaj dab neeg. Kuv tau qhib Kevin Love Fund, nrog lub tswv yim los muab kev pabcuam rau tib neeg, thiab txhawb nqa (lwm tus) kom ua neej nyob zoo tshaj plaws - ob lub cev thiab lub hlwb. "
Kev hlub, 33, twb yeej NBA lub npe nrog Cleveland Cavaliers (2016), thiab tau khwv tau ntau lab tus neeg ncaws pob - raws li Forbes, nws tau kos npe rau plaub xyoos, $ 120 lab daim ntawv cog lus txuas ntxiv nrog Cavaliers hauv 2018 - tab sis nws hais ntau zaus ib tus neeg, hauv txhua qhov chaw, tuaj yeem tsom mus rau lawv txoj haujlwm, mus txog qhov uas nws tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj rau tib neeg. puas siab puas ntsws.
“Qhov ntawd yog qhov loj rau kuv. Thaum koj yog ib tus neeg ncaws pob, koj tus kheej tau qhwv ntau heev hauv koj qhov kev ua si. Koj muaj qhov pom kev, ”hais tias Hlub. "Koj muab cov zaub ntug hauv paus dangling sab nraum qhov koj xav txog kev ua tiav. Thiab koj caum nws. Thiab tom qab ntawd muab nws tso tseg. Thiab caum nws dua. Thiab koj yeej tsis tso cai rau koj tus kheej los xav txog tej yam uas koj tau ua hauv lub neej kom tau mus rau qhov chaw koj nyob niaj hnub no. "
Ntxiv rau nws Kevin Kev Hlub Nyiaj Txiag, Cavaliers rau pem hauv ntej tau koom tes nrog Cove thiab Feelmore Labs ua tus thawj coj ua lag luam. Kev hlub hais tias nws yog "ib txwm nrhiav micro-tau txais," ob lub cev thiab lub hlwb, thiab cov cuab yeej Cove yog qhov zoo ntawm cov cuab yeej tsis cuam tshuam nws nrhiav thaum nws tshawb fawb.
"Qhov no yog ib qho khoom siv coj los siv," Kev Hlub hais. "Nws yog kev kho mob zoo rau thaum sawv ntxov thiab yav tsaus ntuj. Nws tau txhim kho kuv txoj kev pw tsaug zog, txhim kho kuv lub hlwb kev ua tau zoo, thiab tshem tawm qhov kev ntxhov siab. Kuv xav tias xis nyob hauv kuv tus kheej daim tawv nqaij ntau dua li kuv puas muaj. Kuv xav tias kuv yog tus mloog zoo dua, muaj kev nkag siab ntau dua, thiab kuv tsis tas yuav ua kom zoo tag nrho. "
Kev hlub hais tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no los txuas ntxiv kev sib tham hauv tebchaws txog kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tom qab ob xyoos dhau los ntawm kev kub ntxhov thoob ntiaj teb: kev sib kis tsis tu ncua, kev tsis sib haum xeeb hauv Asmeskas, thiab kev tsis sib haum xeeb tam sim no nyob rau sab hnub tuaj Europe.
"Txhua zaus koj qhib TV, zoo li muaj tej yam hnyav, thiab qhov ntawd ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab," Kev Hlub hais. "Muaj kev sib tham txog haiv neeg, ib puag ncig, kev xaiv tsa - tsuas yog ntau txheej. Kuv xav tias nws yog hais txog kev sim nrhiav qhov sib npaug, thiab tsis txhob saib mus deb dhau lawm. Nyob twj ywm tam sim no, txawm tias tam sim no tsis yog ib txwm saib zoo tshaj plaws.
"Kuv xav tias txhua tus neeg sib ntaus sib tua nrog (ib yam dab tsi) txhua hnub," Kev Hlub ntxiv. "Tab sis yog tias peb muaj peev txheej, thiab peb tuaj yeem sim ua kom tshem tawm kev qias neeg ntawm (mob hlwb), peb txuas ntxiv mus. Kuv tau txais nws - pessimism muag zoo dua thiab tau txais clicks zoo dua. Tab sis nws tsis yog ib qho kev xaiv rau kuv kom muaj tshuaj lom neeg tsis txaus, kom muaj kev ntxhov siab. Kuv tuaj yeem xaiv ua qhov zoo. "
Tau qhov twg los: https://www.forbes.com/sites/christianred/2022/04/06/veteran-nba-player-kevin-love-continues-to-be-a-trailblazer-for-mental-health-awareness/